“I have a question about a guy. We met once and I liked him. He was for real and exactly as he appeared online.
A health condition put him into a fragile situation. He is abroad getting therapy and is under a doctor’s care.
The problem is, how long should I wait for him? We communicate through emails, pictures and videos. He claims he doesn’t like to talk on the phone.
I would like to talk on the phone. I am getting discouraged waiting for him.
It has been a year of computer communication and I am getting tired of it. — Computer Challenged”
Dear Computer:
You’ve waited a year!!!!?? Holy hell you’re patient…and a twinge bit naive.
I think it’s apparent at this point that he’s never coming back – if he ever left at all. You’re spending all this time and energy on a guy who’s LITERALLY not around. He’s got you wrapped around his finger and he knows it. There’s a whole world of guys out there who are actually around you and willing to be physically be with someone. Get your fine ass out there and find him!