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Wales’ Stunning Beaches: A Paradise for Beach Lovers

When you think of Wales, what is the first thing that comes to mind? Is it Doctor Who? Because for me, it’s Doctor Who. Many of the newer seasons (think Christopher Eccleston, also known as The Ninth Doctor, and beyond) have been filmed almost exclusively in Wales. Little did I know that Wales was also famous for its beaches!

Upon closer consideration, it makes sense. There are 1,680 miles of coastline. There are also numerous stunning beach communities and spots that dot the coastline. Even in the wintertime, these spots were excellent to visit.

Our first stop was Tenby. I mean, look at that coastline. The beach stretches for miles, making it an excellent spot for a walk. It’s also a great spot to bring your dog! Not only was the beach a great spot to bring your dog, but Wales was severely more accommodating of dogs than anywhere I have seen in the States. It was wonderful to take our Labrador retriever hostess, Agnes, along with us on each of our stops.

Miss Agnes has a paddle.

Even with the clouds and quasi-chilly weather, it was a wonderful place for a stroll.

Turning our focus away from the beach, we went into town. The entire village is dotted with these brightly colored buildings that speak to its vibrancy. Sidenote, how do these cars drive down these tiny roads? Very carefully.

Tenby Harbour

After wandering through the streets and the shops, slightly depressed that there wasn’t an ice cream shop open, we found our way to a pub. Naturally.

My mom has this thing about drinking local beers wherever she goes. I like to do that too, so having a Harbwr Brewery beer in Tenby just made delicious sense. There are numerous shops and restaurants to choose from throughout the town. Being that it was Christmas Eve, I was surprised at how many spots were open. I was also surprised at seeing just how many people were out and about. Everyone was taking advantage of the weather, and it was delightful to be a part of it.

As I mentioned earlier, Wales is frequently used as a filming location for the show Doctor Who. One of its beaches was also used in the filming of the Harry Potter film series. Specifically, it was used for the final scene of The Deathly Hallows: Part One and the beginning of Part Two. The following section contains a massive spoiler; if you haven’t read the books or seen the movies, please continue scrolling until after the photos. ************* Scroll now to avoid it *************

I knew from research that there was a nearby beach that was the home of Dobby’s grave. I’ve got a brother-in-law who hates Dobby because of how much trouble he got Harry in. But enough about him and his myopic thinking. I wanted to see where they filmed the scene. It’s a moving scene because Dobby was one of the first sentient, magical creatures that Harry befriended, and in the end, Dobby sacrificed his own safety and well-being to save Harry and his friends. It’s a real gut punch given everything Harry has already lost up to that point.

First, we made our way to Freshwater West beach. The spot of Dobby’s grave is not too difficult to find. There will, more than likely, be people hovering around the makeshift grave just above the main beach. I was not expecting the site to be as moving as it was. When I walked up, I saw the sheer volume of stones with personal messages written on them for Dobby. This is a character in a book and film series. People from around the world have come here to pay their respects. It’s heartwarming to think about the impact he had on all of these people who left a note or message.

It should be noted that the Welsh government has asked people not to leave socks (it’s a house elf thing) by the grave because they could end up in the ocean, adding pollution to the beach. Leave your socks on your feet or in your drawers.

***** Spoilers Over *****

Our last beach of the day took us to Broad Haven Beach, located near Haverfordwest.

As you can see, it’s a lovely, crescent-shaped bay. The sand was soft. The mist coming off the water created an almost mythical atmosphere, making the space even more enchanting. As we walked the beach, along with Agnes, I couldn’t help but take in the beauty of the area. I live in and was born in California. It’s a place known for its beaches. But the Welsh beaches felt more magical. Maybe I’m seeing these beaches through Red Dragon-colored glasses, but all the spots we visited that day were places I want to return to and visit in the summer. I can’t say that about Santa Monica or Redondo Beach.

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Dear John: Daughter’s Birthday Demands Kill Happy Mood

My 30-year-old daughter has extremely high expectations for her birthday. No one in the family has ever given her a gift that she liked, so now we actually have to get the gift approved by her husband first!

She doesn’t like gift cards, and our budget is small. Although she barely acknowledges anyone else’s birthday, she still expects the “perfect” present for her own. We love her and want to celebrate with her, but the expectations and confrontations make her birthdays miserable for everyone — including her. How do we stop this?

— BIRTHDAY CELEBRATION

Dear Birthday,

… You stop it by not celebrating with her? Maybe?

JK, you clearly love her but now it’s at the point where it’s just inducing stress and misery.

You know, she’s acting like Dudley Dursley on his birthday. He wasn’t pleased that there weren’t more presents than the previous year which causes Vernon to say that they’ll get one at the zoo to make up for it. Needless to say, their bending to his whim and coddling of him didn’t turn Dudley into a proper human being.

Don’t be the Dursley’s.

Don’t give in to her demands of getting the “perfect present.” The very fact that you are getting her anything should be celebrated. Maybe the time has come to celebrate the day with a nice dinner out at a restaurant of her choosing and that would be it. That’s a wrap on the presents.

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“Jaw With John” – The Dream of the 90’s is Also Alive in This 24-Year-Old…Not!

I am 24 years old. I am a happy person overall, but lately I’ve been feeling down. With everything going on in today’s world, and the state of society these days, it scares me at times.

I felt safe in the ’90s. Not so much seemed to be happening back then. Life was simpler. Is what I’m experiencing normal, or is it something more?

– Feeling Down in CT

Dear Feeling Down,

I felt safe in the ’90’s.” Uh, what?

You’re 24 right now, meaning that you were most likely born in 1993. Meaning you were four when Titanic came out and I was standing in line with my grandma to see the movie that EVERYONE had to see. This also means that your perception of the ’90’s is skewed.

Not so much seemed to be happening back then.” You weren’t old enough to remember the OJ Simpson trial (not the awesome FX TV show), the first Harry Potter book being released, the JonBenet Ramsey murder, Seinfeld, Princess Diana’s death, Clinton-Cigar-Monica-Gate, Susan Lucci FINALLY winning an Emmy, the LA Riots, Beanie Babies, the Oklahoma City Bombing… You see where I’m going here? You were a young child at the time so of course you felt safe!

You were a child who’s only real concern was trying to ride a bike without training wheels and figuring out how to tie your shoes! I’m oversimplifying, I know, but I need to in order to make my point.

If current events have you so down then do something about it and be proactive in your community and be the change you want to see in the world.

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“Jaw With John” – She’s Unreasonable AND Hates Harry Potter…Yikes

My husband’s sister-in-law’s posts on Facebook are extremely offensive, insulting and aggressive, often personally directed at those who do not agree with her. She is bigoted, mean and always angry.

After multiple gentle attempts to explain how her words made her sound, I eventually “unfriended” and blocked her. I am not alone in our family in doing so. She now pointedly snubs me and these others at family gatherings. As she was always unpredictable and occasionally offensive in person as well, I feel no loss, but my husband is uncomfortable and wants me to “make up” with her.

This is a woman who has called me a “witch” for allowing my kids contact with Harry Potter books/movies, says my gay friends are inhabited by “familial demons,” accuses my daughter’s Muslim employer of being a terrorist, proudly calls herself an anarchist, says she is ready to shoot anyone who is not “on her side of the fence” with her gun (she really has one) and so on.

If anyone actually tries to engage with her, she will spam them with emails and text messages. I believe she may be mentally ill. My husband says, regardless, “family is family.”

When we have visited his brother and her in the past, he would go off with his brother and have a nice time, leaving me alone with this nut job to walk on proverbial eggshells. Since the Facebook incident, and her ensuing snub, I am relieved to be unburdened of the connection. I have told my husband he is welcome to visit his long-suffering brother solo. Am I being unreasonable? — Free at Last

Dear Free:

Muggles. Am I right????

You’re perfectly within your right here. Now it’s time for you to step back, and away, from her. If she is that important to your husband then he can go and spend time with her. You’ve done your part and frankly, the people who think that exposing a child to Harry Potter is a bad thing deserve zero in return. That’s asinine.

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