“My best friend (I have known her for 40 years) is getting married for the third time. I was maid of honor at her first wedding and showered her with some very nice gifts at that time.
That marriage lasted two years. She got married the second time. Again, I gave her very nice gifts, both monetary and items from her registry. That marriage lasted 20 years.
Now, she is marrying a guy she knew in grammar school and reconnected with on Facebook.
My family of three is attending this third reception. They are having a dinner in a country club with dancing and a photo booth.
What would be an appropriate gift? My husband is not fond of my friend and feels we should not give a generous gift.
What is your opinion? — Hope Third Time is the Charm!”
Dear Hope:
Why are you telling me they have a photo booth? This doesn’t help me make my decision. In fact, it doesn’t even influence my decision. Give her the cheapest thing on her registry, it’s as easy as that. I don’t know why this is such a dilemma since your husband, and I’m guessing you too, feel that she has received enough lavish gifts from you. KISS – Keep It Simple Stupid.
John Kidde Writes 