“I have a question about a guy. We met once and I liked him. He was for real and exactly as he appeared online.
A health condition put him into a fragile situation. He is abroad getting therapy and is under a doctor’s care.
The problem is, how long should I wait for him? We communicate through emails, pictures and videos. He claims he doesn’t like to talk on the phone.
I would like to talk on the phone. I am getting discouraged waiting for him.
It has been a year of computer communication and I am getting tired of it. — Computer Challenged”
Dear Computer:
You’ve waited a year!!!!?? Holy hell you’re patient…and a twinge bit naive.
I think it’s apparent at this point that he’s never coming back – if he ever left at all. You’re spending all this time and energy on a guy who’s LITERALLY not around. He’s got you wrapped around his finger and he knows it. There’s a whole world of guys out there who are actually around you and willing to be physically be with someone. Get your fine ass out there and find him!
John Kidde Writes 